function approveFriendEmail(id) {
    //debugger;
    if (window.XMLHttpRequest) {
        xmlHttp = new XMLHttpRequest()
    } else if (window.ActiveXObject) {
        xmlHttp = new ActiveXObject("Microsoft.XMLHTTP")
    }

    //alert('approving id# ' + id);

    var openpage = "processpurl.aspx?hruyt=7ryh45&white=betty&leadid=" + id;
    xmlHttp.open('GET', openpage);
    xmlHttp.send(null);
}